Saturday, August 22, 2009

Happy Birthday Mom


Well, it has been a while, that is for sure. I had to come out of hibernation to wish the most incredible mom Happy Birthday!! You are an amazing woman, I can't imagine what I would do without you. I hope you have a wonderful birthday and many, many more. I love you Mom.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

10 days










Well, it's been a very fast 10 days since Josh has graduated and he's leaving tomorrow to go on to further training. He'll be in Camp Geiger, NC for 29 days then on to Fort Knox, KY or Aberdeen, MD. I thought it was tough letting him go the first time, but this time seems to be so much tougher. Guess it's something I better get used to. Grandma and Grandaddy are taking him tomorrow, so they get a few more hours with him, I so envy them that. But they both love him dearly and are so very proud of him. Hopefully his next training location will be in MD, it's only about a 3 hour drive from here. Maybe as time goes on, the letting him go part will get easier.
Here's more pictures from graduation.

Monday, July 13, 2009

More Graduation Pics

What an amazing ride this has all been. We (Me, Buck, G-ma and G-dad) headed down to SC last Wednesday to see Josh graduate from bootcamp. While the ride was long, the experience was incredible. The first time I got to see my son after 3 months he was doing stretches to get loosened up for the run. He DID see his banner, and I caught a silly grin or 2 before they headed off. OMG, I don't know which one of us was crying harder, me or mom. G-daddy did let a tear or 2 slip before he was caught.

It was so great to be able to just see him, felt like I couldn't quit hugging him. He hasn't lost that much weight, but he is certainly a more muscular and boy did he miss his junk food, lol. Had a wonderful time at the Meet and Greet later that night, members of our message board got together and made bags for those guys who didn't have family there. Was nice to put a face with a name. Friday morning was graduation and I can't even begin to describe the pride I had when those fine young men marched onto that parade deck. It was almost overwhelming. I will post more later about that, for now, here's more pictures and I hope the next 7 days drag by.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

My New Marine



This will be a short post, just wanted to share a couple of pictures with you. Will post more later. I'll just say, he's home and I couldn't be happier.

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

He Did It!!!

Tomorrow we are leaving to bring Josh home after 13 long weeks, many tears, and the toughest thing he's ever gone through. I am so excited, I bet I won't be able to sleep for the next 2 nights. My son is now a Marine!!! I am so very proud of him and can't even begin to imagine the things that he has done.
Thursday is Family Day, that will be the first time that I get to see him. The banner made with love will be proudly held, and I just hope that I can pick him out of the crowd of 300 other new Marines. We get to spend the day with him after that, having him back to his barracks by 14:45 (like that new military time). Thursday night we will be getting together with the other families from his company to make up the "SAM" bags for the guys who have no family there. I'll finally get to meet a lot of the family members that i've chatted with over the past 3 months. Hopefully get a good night sleep. Friday is graduation, starting at 10:00 AM and let's just hope I don't need the Bounty that everyone is talking about. I've heard that there is a long line waiting to get off the island, so i've volunteered to help out with giving out the bags. Then we'll head on home and I'll get to have him here for 10 short days. Then off to his next course of training.

I am so very, very proud of my Josh. Thanks for all your prayers and encouragement, I know it's meant a lot to him and me. I'll post pictures as soon as I can, you can bet between me and Mom, we'll have a ton of them.

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Happy day after 4th of July

Yep, I missed posting yesterday for Independence Day. This year it has even more meaning than it has in the past. My Josh is a United States Marine!!!! Ooooooh Rahhhhhh! He made it through the Crucible (thanks for all the prayers and well wishes) and now we just have to wait for Family Day on Thursday to see him. I am so excited, this is the longest it's ever been for him to be away. I know, it's just the beginning, taking baby steps on this one. Hopefully today I'll get a phone call as this is their first "liberty day" they've had since April 13th. Hope everyone had a safe and fun 4th of July.

P.S. I have to change the banner (rolling eyes here)

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

MFP

I have finally figured out what is wrong with me. Read the symptoms below, makes a lot of sense now.

You are probably feeling a bit queasy and perhaps have a lump in your thought. To the untrained person that feeling may manifest itself as fear, uncertainty and doubt. Even worry.

It is not..... The feelings you are experiencing is the onset of what is commonly known MFP (Marine Family Pride). I is commonly mistaken for worry and concern as the early symptoms are identical. There are studies underway that suggest MFP comes from inhaling sand flea dust often found on letter originating from Parris Island.

According to the USMC Medical Journal...
Marine Family Pride - a.k.a. MFP
Initial Symptoms - 0 - 8 weeks - This is the first two phases of the illness. Lump in throat, watery eyes, feelings of despair, depression and intense worry. Develops and increases over 12 week period.
Intermediate Symptoms - weeks 9 - 11 from onset - Third phase of illness - uncontrollable weeping over simple items like childhood photos of Marine recruits, recent photos, letters from recruits.
Advanced Stages - weeks 12 - 13 - Crucial phase (pronounced CRU - SI - BAL) Swelling of chest (related to pride). Difficulty breathing (chest swelling). Watery eyes. Anxiety.
Cure - Only one cure. EGA placed firmly in hand, accompanied by family day and graduation. Cure is permanent (same as EGA).
Recovery period - 10 days following graduation providing there is close attention. Monitor closely.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Crucible Prayer Chain

Well folks, here is the beginning of the end. Josh will face one of his hardest challenges this week on his way to becoming a US Marine. It's called The Crucible. If you're not familiar with it, here's a brief run down on some of the obstacles these guys are having to go through. This is a little long, so please bear with me.

For 54 straight hours, recruits’ endurance, teamwork and skills will be pushed to the limit. Through perseverance and courage, they will finish as platoons and earn the title of US Marine.

The Crucible emphasizes trainee teamwork under stress.
They get two-and-a-half MREs and they are responsible for rationing out the food to themselves. Then they are put them through tough physical activities like road marches and night infiltration courses. They march about 40 miles in those 54 hours

The Crucible begins at 2 a.m. with a six-mile road march from their barracks to Page Airfield, the Crucible site. Once there, recruits place their gear in huts and prepare for the first of four four-hour events. Each event has a number of "warrior stations" that the team of recruits must work together to overcome or solve. Each station is named for a Marine hero and the drill instructor has a recruit read a brief explanation of how the hero's actions exemplify the Corps and its values.
One warrior station is built around an enemy-mined rope bridge that the recruits must cross with their gear and ammunition boxes. They have only a couple of short ropes and their personal gear to solve the problem. At another event, recruits run into firing positions and engage pop-up targets with 10 rounds in two magazines. Recruit teams battle each other with pugil sticks in yet another event.
The recruits grab food and water when they can. After the first two events comes a five-mile night march. The recruits hit the rack for four hours of sleep, then begin another day and finish the final two events.
At the end of the second day, the recruits go through a night infiltration course and then hit the rack for another four hours. When they get up, they face a nine-mile march and the end of the Crucible.
The march begins at 4 a.m. and, at first, is done quietly. Recruits limp along, because no one wants to drop out this close to the end.
As the sun rises, the recruits cross DI Bridge. Once across, the drill instructors start Jody calls and the recruits join in. As they get closer to the main base, the Jody calls get louder until they reach the Parade Deck. The recruits form up around a half-size replica of the Marine Corps Memorial -- also known as the Iwo Jima Memorial. There, a significant transformation takes place.
A color guard raises the flag on the memorial. The chaplain reads a prayer specifically written for the finish of the Crucible, and the company first sergeant addresses the recruits. Then the drill instructors present each of their recruits with the Marine Corps insignia -- the eagle, globe and anchor. He shakes their hands and calls them "Marine" for the first time. Many accept the honor with tears streaming down their faces.

The YUKU group that I am a member of have started a prayer chain to help these young men along. They will be getting started on June 30th @ 2:00 AM and ending July 2nd at approx 7:00 AM. If you have a few moments during that time, if you would, please send up some prayers for these fine young men. I'll also be leaving a light burning, so my son can find his way back.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Ta-Daaaaaa


After only 2 1/2 months, countless tears, curses, rearranging, professional consultations (thanks Wendy and Judi), Mom and I have FINALLY completed the Moto Run banner. O M G?!?!?! What was I thinking? I think if I had just bought one it would have been less traumatic. Judi suggested we use this great spray on adhesive stuff for the letters, this is Mom's version of using the product. As you can see, it got a little sticky after all of the use.




And here is a picture of the finished product. I sure hope he likes it, because it has definitely been a labor of love. Next week the Crucible will start for Quebec Company. If everyone could just say a short prayer during the grueling 54 hours these guys have to go through, I sure would appreciate it. I'll be leaving my light on for them to find their way home on next Thursday morning.

Mom, this is a special thanks to you. I'm not going to write everything I feel, you know everything that i've been going through. I just want to say THANK YOU and I love you so much!!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

The Blue Ticket


Today I FINALLY received my coveted blue ticket for Josh's graduation. I have been looking for this thing for a week now. I've kind of equated it to Charlie and the Chocolate Factory golden ticket. Remember when everyone was buying all the candy bars hoping for that golden ticket? Well, I've been stalking the mail lady looking for my blue one. As Judi would say WOOOOOHOOOOOO it finally came. Graduation is finally near, the next time I see my son he will be a United States Marine. I can't wait!!

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Marisas 1st concert


I have been told I was remiss in posting Marisas first concert picture, so figure me. I was having blog issues.

MIA

Sorry to say i've been MIA again here recently. Looking over the blogs, seems like I'm not the only member of my family who has been having the same affliction. lol Seems like there has been a lot going on in Kalos World that I wasn't prepared for, so i've been having a little down time trying to come to terms with everything. So here's a brief update.

Marisa had her last day of school on Friday and will be starting as an 8th grader next year. Gosh, I can't hardly believe it, one more year she'll be in high school. But she had a better year than in some in the past. Seems like she has a great group of friends and has managed to stay half way out of trouble. She actually went to her first concert the other night to see one of her favorite bands. Here's a pic with her friend Andrea. She'll be heading to PA after we come back from Josh's graduation to spend some time with her grandparents in PA.

Josh seems to be doing well in boot camp. He only has 27 days left before he graduates and becomes a Marine. His letters seem pretty upbeat and positive, but I know he misses home. I'm sure it's been quite an adjustment for a laid back guy like him, who liked to sleep until 2 in the afternoon, to having to get up at 04:00 as he calls it. I've definitely seen an increase in maturity from him, and I hope the process doesn't eliminate that laid back quality of his. The last big test they have is something called the "Crucible" which I'm sure everyone has seen glimpses of, but not the whole thing. It's a very intense, 54 hour grueling ritual that all Marines must complete before they can graduate. This wonderful site that i've joined has started a prayer chain for the time, so if you'd like to participate, just let me know.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Training Week 7

This week is another important training week for Josh. It's what they consider "Rifle Week" as this is when he has to qualify for his rifle training. Isn't that a clever name? lol They have 3 levels that they can qualify as Marksman, the minimum that he can qualify at, Sharpshooter, which is of course better and Expert which is the highest level that they can qualify at. If he does not qualify at any of these levels, they will "recycle" him back into another platoon, so lets hope he does well. It's very monotonous and tedious so any extra prayers will be appreciated. I'll keep you posted.

Weekly Update

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As always, it's been another busy week here in Kalos World. Friday night I went over Wendys and she and Mom (thanks girls)helped me put together the banner for the Moto Run at Josh's graduation. It's not fully constructed yet, but check out the picture and let me know. I'm getting excited for graduation and still have 5 weeks to go.



Buck and I went to the Patriotic Festival down at the beach. Lots of great music and foods, vendors and such. I had given him tickets to see David Cook, last years American Idol, as he was headlining. Felicia Barton our local American Idol and Matt Nathanson played before him. They were both actually pretty good. Matt Nathanson was quite the entertainer, very personable with the audience and seemed very appreciative. I'll have to buy his CD. They honored our Veteran's and active military personal, so you know it was even more special for me. I took this great picture after darkness had fallen. I don't think any explanations are needed.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Happy Memorial Day


Thank you to all those brave men and women who have made our country such a wonderful place. Mere thanks is not enough.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Family Challenge

With tomorrow being Memorial Day, this year it brings even more significance than usual. While I've always appreciated everything our brave men and women do for our country, with Josh going through the process, it makes me even more appreciative. So here's a challenge to my family and friends (if you'd like to participate). On July 1st Josh will be starting the hardest thing he has ever done in his life, the dreaded "Crucible". This is a rite of passage in the USMC and the final test before he becomes a Marine (on July the 4th, ironically). I will be taking part in the leaving the light on tradition and challenge anyone who reads this to do the same.

Tradition has been in the past that a light be left on in your home for the entire 54 hour Crucible event, porch light, Recruits bedroom light, a candle in the window(battery). This is a symbol of guidance, to show them the way. Also, put your flags up, wear something patriotic and let's all keep a positive attitude & keep our faith in our Recruits & ourselves as we encourage, support & love them from a distance.
I really like this idea and I will definitely do this for the 54 hours of the crucible. I think that this activity is going to help me keep peace of mind because I will know that even though I can't be there with my Recruit to help him through the obstacles I can still be here at home giving him the support he needs. I highly encourage you all to participate....lets see how far we can take this


Thanks to everyone for your continued, support, prayers and love.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Josh's progress


Haven't been blogging much lately, as you can see, i've been pretty preoccupied. Here's a description of what he'll be doing this upcoming week. As you can see, they keep them busy. Not sure that I could do it, well, maybe 20 years ago lol Thanks for the continued support and prayers!

This schedule is of course subject to change based on weather, holidays and the needs of the company.

TD24 Monday
We are at the beginning of Week 5 -- and you guys thought you wouldn't even make it this far....
Today is a big day!!!
They will start off the day will Initial Testing -- a multiple guess test on all the classes they have had so far in training.
The recruits will also get to test out the rappell tower Then it is on to the gas chamber!!

They will get a class on the gas chamber and the gas mask and how to properly wear it and use it. Then they all line up outside the gas chamber with their masks properly strapped to their waist in the pouch. Just before entering the gas chamber they will put it on and make sure they have a good seal around their face. Then they will file in to the gas chamber and watch as the NBC tech breaks open some tablets of CS gas (tear gas) on the little burner. Once the fizziling has stopped then they all have to take a deep breath and hold it and close their eyes and lift their masks up to their foreheads so that all the DIs and Series Commanders can see everyones eyes (closed still) sometimes this can take a little bit if one of the recruits has a problem. Once they see everyones eyes they allow them to "Don and Clear their masks" (put them back on and clear the gas out by making a good seal again). They then turn and grasp the shoulder of the person in front of them and play follow the leader to the outside of the chamber. Once outside they can take off their masks and air out a little. But meanwhile the CS has really opened their sinuses and they definitely are not a pretty sight as they come out of the chamber with tears and runny noses that are involuntary.
Of course they will all try to squeeze in some practice drill some more for TOMORROW!!!!

TD25 Tuesday
START OF PHASE II
TODAY
IS
INITIAL DRILL!!!!!!!!!

Lead Series will have their weapons triple checked for any possible problems before they go to the range next week and get hair cuts. Then both series will have a class on their travel arrangements (so they can start thinking about it ahead of time) and a class on grooming standards in the Marine Corps.

TD26 Wednesday
Lead Series will have a 3.0mi run and then get to take a trip to the exchange to pick up anything they might need while at the rifle range. And of course they will be taking pictures...however, they don't get to show off those pearly whites that I am sure that more than one of you have invested many $$$$ in, but it will still be a awesome picture that you won't trade in for the world. The don't get to smile because as I always told my mom "Marines are not supposed to smile they are supposed to be serious." She never liked it when I said that....

TD27 Thursday
Today is essentially a flip flop of yesterday.....Follow Series will get to do that 3.0 mile run and get to visit the recruit exchange and taking pictures...you know, that awesome picture that you won't trade in for the world. AND Lead Series will be geting their second clothing fitting (the khaki/green service uniforms that Marines wear.)

TD28
ONLY 7 MORE FRIDAYS UNTIL GRADUATION!!

Shots again!
Then they will have a class on Thrift Savings Plan (the USMC 401k) and how the MOS structure works, and Follow Series will have their weapons triple checked for any possible problems before they go to the range next week.

TD29 Saturday
Today the recruits will be having a nice little walk for about 6.0 miles calling cadence and carrying packs on their backs... At the end of their little hike they will be at their new homes at the rifle range for the next couple of weeks. yes, they will still be getting their mail on regular mail days. After, they get to the range, they will get a few classes on their weapons and then practice that AWESOME drill.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Birthday Marisa


Today is my beautiful Marisa's birthday. I still can't believe she is a teenager, seemed like just yesterday she was my little girl. Snuggling with her, reading, playing. She is an amazing young lady, so funny, loyal, smart. What a wonderful Mothers day gift she is. Hope you have a wonderful birthday baby, you'll always be my little girl. I love you!

Happy Mothers Day




What do you say on this day? I personally don't feel like 1 day a year is enough to describe the love I have for this woman. She's my biggest cheerleader, staunchest supporter, loyal friend, best shopping buddy, business partner (ha ha), harshest critic, and God knows my life would be so empty without her. Today, if not everyday Mom, I want you to know how much I love you and thanks for hanging out on Christmas Day with me all those years ago.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Oh where oh where......



This past week we have had some seriously scary storms here. Thunder and lightening, torrential rains, VERY high winds. It's been pretty bad. Thursday night was one of those storms, between bouts of wind and rain, I went out front to assess any damage we may have gotten. Noticed that my neighbors had half a tree down and my flag pole with flag had broken off half way. Just figured the flag was on it's way to SC to be with Josh. Buck has been out power washing the house and called me out to see something. Guess what he found on the roof of our house? Yep, you guessed it, the runaway flag. So I guess the next couple of days he'll be racking his brain on how to get it down lol These pictures were taken with me hanging over the deck as far as I could get.

*Update* Not 30 minutes after I posted this, the flag was rescued lol